Not sure if someone is interested in you? Want to know if you’re likely to get another date? Look out for these signals to indicate if they’re into you!
- Mutual eye contact.
If someone is interested in you they are much more likely to try and catch your eye and will maintain eye contact whilst talking to you.
Maintaining eye contact elevates your oxytocin levels and increases mutual attraction!
Just make sure that your eye contact doesn’t end up verging on staring as that’s rude and might scare your date!
- Finding excuses to touch you.
When someone likes you’ll they’ll quite often go out of their way to find excuses to touch you.
This might be lightly touching your arm as they talk to you or finding an excuse to hold your hand.
Another way they could touch you is by “preening”. Picking fluff off your clothing or straightening your collar or tie could be an indication that they’re interested in you.
- Inward leaning.
The way a person is sitting is an important gauge as to whether they like you. People tend to lean towards people and try to close the gap between you. For example uncrossing their arms/legs or leaning over a table or if you’re sitting next to each other, they’d be likely turned towards you to give you their full attention.
Subtle mirroring indicates attraction. If they cross their arms when you do, or uncross their legs when you do then it is very likely that there is attraction there.
People who like one another are likely to mirror each other’s body positions. It can help establish rapport and sends a subconscious signal that you’re interested.
- No barriers between you.
If they are interested in you they are likely to remove any barriers or obstacles between you. If they’re sitting opposite you they might move to sit next to you or if there is something big on the table they might move it out of the way so they can see you better.
They might move cups and things out of the way so that there is a clear path between you, or also as mentioned previously, they may uncross their arms or legs as this can be seen as a barrier, so removal of this leaves them more open towards you.
- They ask you lots of questions.
If someone is asking you a lot of questions about yourself and seems genuinely interested – then they probably are!
If you like someone you want to make time to find out more information about them so if someone is making an effort to learn about you then they are likely to have a vested interest in you.
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