People who are ready for love in their life have a number of options available to help them find it. Many go chasing after it by exploring every possible avenue that can potentially lead them to a match, even it it’s toxic. Some choose to try their luck on dating sites and apps, and may even consider signing up to a matchmaking service.
If you’re someone who has tried and tested just about everything, but you’re still single, don’t give up just yet… The Law of Attraction can help you to manifest love and romance – provided that you do it right.
For the powerful self-help technique to work for you, it’s essential that you change your mindset, and make a few adjustments to your energy and actions. When you do these things, you’ll begin to see the LOA working like magic in your life. You could even find that your perfect love match is the crush you’re flirting with on Chat2Date – the UK’s busiest phone chat line service!
The fundamental principle of the Law of Attraction involves focusing on what you want, and attracting a desire that’s in perfect alignment with your own energetic vibration. If you’re low vibe and lack self-esteem and self-confidence, you’ll attract someone that’s a match.
Many people misuse the manifestation technique because they want something desperately, but are not prepared to make the personal changes required to get it. If you put all of your energy and attention into focusing on why you want to manifest a partner – you don’t want to be single, lonely or left on the shelf – you’ll simply attract more of the same – singledom, loneliness and desperation.
No matter how badly you desire a lover, it’s crucial that you stop wanting them, because you don’t like being single. Your focus must be on the experiences that you want – love, romance and companionship.
Start Practicing Self-Love
The journey through personal transformation is mandatory, if you want to be successful at manifesting love with the Law of Attraction. You must prioritise self-love, over pleasing others and putting your own needs last on the to-do list of chores.
Starting a positive daily practice of self-love is hugely beneficial, regardless of whether you’re using LOA techniques to manifest a soulmate or you’re just busy living life. Stop being self-critical of your appearance and everything you do, and start noticing how awesome you are. Swap negative self-talk for words of praise, and adopt habits that boost your wellbeing. It’s also worthwhile paying attention to how you relate to people in your life, and adjusting your behaviour accordingly.
Your self-love practice should benefit your mind, body and spirit, and help to transform you into a better version of you.
Fill The Void
When you believe that something is missing in your life, it can feel like you’re living in a void and that every day is empty or meaningless. The more you focus on the lack, the longer you’ll stay stuck in a cycle of repetitive negative behaviours. Before the Universe can deliver your manifestation request, you’re going to have to break the cycle and fill the void yourself.
Your self-love practice will gradually help to change your perception, and expectations. Every day, look for things that you’re grateful for… a great cup of coffee, finding the perfect parking spot, and receiving compliments from flirty strangers on Chat2Date, can all contribute to filling your void with positivity.
Visualise Your Desires
With a new gratitude attitude, and positive outlook, you’re perfectly primed to take the next step in using LOA to manifest a partner.
Meditate or daydream about what your life will be like once you meet your love match. Visualise your deal partner in your mind, and think about their qualities, values and characteristics, and how they complement yours. Lose yourself in the moment, and play out imaginary scenarios that give you an opportunity to experience an intense feeling of love, joy and bliss.
Request & Surrender
When you feel ready to officially give the Universe your Law of Attraction love manifestation request, write down what you want in detail. Close your eyes and visualise your desires once more. Take a moment to bring up that intense ‘feeling’ that made you deliriously happy.
Put out your request to the Universe…and let it go.
While it’s unlikely that you’ll instantly cross paths with the love of your life, it’s important to be open and optimistic. Wanting something ‘too hard’ or impatiently will lower your positive high vibe, so resist the urge to ask multiple times. Keep your focus on maintaining an attitude of gratitude and you won’t go wrong.
You only need to put out a LOA manifestation request once. It’ll be delivered just as soon as your vibration aligns with the vibe of what you want.
In the meantime, have fun following your passions and doing things that you love, connecting to like-minded, open and friendly people on Chat2Date, and generally enjoying life. Every positive little thing that you do helps to keep your vibe high and brings your love manifestation closer. It also builds a strong emotional foundation on which you can enjoy a beautiful harmonious and loving relationship in the not-so-distant future.